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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:This is my story: I met him at job. Our relation started as good friends. After 9 months we got together. I never thought our relation may work due to the fact I have a daugther (5 years) and I am separated. I did not want to get hurt any longer but it happened: I felt in love again. We were together for 1.5 years and then he dumped me. At the beginning of our relation we had several problems because I was afraid to get hurt again so I asked him to split up (at least once per month!) but he always convinced me that we were made to stay together. Then he drop his job (after 10 years!) and decided to look for a new one without success for almost a year. Then he decided to found his own company but several problems in between.During the time he was without job, he was incredible to me (sweet and gentleman)and looking a lot for me then when he finally start getting the possibility to found his own company he started becoming colder to me. 15 days before he signed his contract we had a problem because I was mad at him due to the fact he decided to spend time with his best friend instead of me then I wrote a very bad SMS and then he dumped me...OK.. I was bad so I deserved... 15 days passed, I gave him back his personal stuff and after 2 weeks I could not more, I pushed him to start our relation again but this time he was really cold to me (almost no calls and no sms for me). Of course the relation did not succeed, we broke up after 1 month. After 1 month I looked again for him and asked him for a new chance but he did not want. Finally and after too much begging, we returned but this time he was even colder to me, did not show interest in our relation and after a month we broke up again. Now, it is almost 3 months without seeing him. I drop a gift in his mail box on his birthday but his response was that I should not do it and that he wishes me all the best in life. I asked him to go for a coffee but he declined the invitation. I am so afraid to contact him again and get rejected. Is there any chance that we can still get together? I just wish he fight for our relation as how he did before our first break up. I love him so much and I feel so down! Please any comment is welcomed. Thanks!
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reader, Ven +, writes (17 October 2010):
I am sorry for how blunt this will sound, but the truth in your statement is that he has been trying for some time to end things with you. I don't have all the information so I don't know what it was exactly that made him turn cold on you, and I don't know why he has decided to move on.
What is clear is that he has decided to move on, and so should you.
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