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writes:Is it possible to know you will be together before you even talk to them? i recently saw this boy at my school and think he is attractive all of a sudden, but i know i have seen him before. I am 17 and i really feel like he could be someone i have somthing with and i never said that about anyone before. He found out this week that i liked him, now im waiting to see if anything is going to happen. He is a junior and i am a senior that is graduating in 2 weeks, so i dont have much time and im upset about it. Im afraid i wont see him again but i still feel we are meant to be together, yet we have never talked to each other. Im too afraid to talk to him fisrt so im hoping he will talk to me soon. Is it possible he is the one and if we start to get to know one another i will know for sure he is the one? Reply to this Question
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 In the movies maybe..?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 May 2010):
 Sometimes things just click and you know it's meant to happen. Spaces out as it might sound: if you're reading the wibes right it could be happening. But as mentioned before it could also not happen for some reason. Maybe someone or something unexpected will interfere. Just try and go with the flow of things and I hope it works out!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2010): I've had that feeling before. Sort of like there is some kind of inevitability about the person and you.
Sometimes it bears out to be true and sometimes it doesn't.
But either way it's not a justification for dumb actions. Sometimes I feel that kind of predestination about doing something risky, and then I totally regret doing it later on. Obeying gut feelings does not substitute for thinking.
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reader, BettyBoup  +, writes (14 May 2010):
 Yes it is POSSIBLE to know you will be with someone when you first meet them. I have had this feeling and it turn out to be correct. BUT, this isn't to say it is sure to happen. You can have a feeling that someone would be good for you, but unless you ACT on that feeling, it won't nessasarily happen, unless one of you makes the first move. Relationships don't happen by magic, you have to make them happen and make them work. Why not try striking up a conversation with the guy and see how you get on? You have nothing to lose and everything to potentailly gain :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): No, that's just something in your head. You think he may be the "one" because you want him to be the "one".
Another thing is, I understand that you are afraid to talk to him, but you should somehow set up an opportunity for this guy to talk to you, otherwise nothing will happen. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2010): No--it is not possible. Time tells all.
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