Is it possible to have strong feelings for two people at the same time?

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex and I had been together for a year and 3 months. It had been a good relationship, we had our ups and downs but we were in love. However a few weeks ago he became distant and after asking him over and over why, he admitted he had feelings for this other girl(I'd had my suspicions). he was in a real state, crying, saying he didnt know what to do so i ended it with him, even though deep down I didnt want to. Since then we have been texting and he calls me and always says he loves me and that hes so confused and doesn't know what to do. i desperately want him back, i know he loves me but he obviously has very strong feelings for this girl. he said that he saw her the other night and that they spoke and i could tell he was pleased about it. he says he still loves me though and he'd be gutted if he saw me with anyone else. i don't know what to do.

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