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22-25,
anonymous
writes:My ex and I had been together for a year and 3 months. It had been a good relationship, we had our ups and downs but we were in love. However a few weeks ago he became distant and after asking him over and over why, he admitted he had feelings for this other girl(I'd had my suspicions). he was in a real state, crying, saying he didnt know what to do so i ended it with him, even though deep down I didnt want to. Since then we have been texting and he calls me and always says he loves me and that hes so confused and doesn't know what to do. i desperately want him back, i know he loves me but he obviously has very strong feelings for this girl. he said that he saw her the other night and that they spoke and i could tell he was pleased about it. he says he still loves me though and he'd be gutted if he saw me with anyone else. i don't know what to do.Can he possibly have a normal relationship with this other girl if he is still in love with me? Is it possible to have strong feelings for two people at the same time? I'm so confused...
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reader, icelordess  + ♥, writes (19 September 2009):
 I believe its possible to love more than one person at the same time, but our society doesn't condone that..He's playing you though..and having the best of both worlds, and that's not fair. You're going to have to force him to chose.
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reader, big ron + ♥, writes (19 September 2009):
 you have every right to be confused! think of it this way...he is being honest with you, a lot of guys wouldn`t be, given the situation. is it possible that you are good together and he is scared by committing to you...maybe he see`s an escape route in the other girl, seeing fresh possibilities. has your relationship run it`s course? you can take heart from the fact he is honest with you...he doesn`t know what`s going to happen, he is confused too. i guess time will tell. good luck x
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