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writes: Dear Cupid:My friend (really, it's a friend this time)is having trouble with a guy friend of hers. I'm asking on this site because I'm not a good person to ask for relationship advice...Anyway, this guy friend is trying to get my friend to fall in love with him, but she's told him over and over again she doesn't want to be anymore than friends. And lately, he's a bit unstable because of the many home life problems he's been having, and she's too nervous to break it to him anymore than gently because of it. All the same, he's not listening and still trying to get her to like him.And she has some very serious problems of her own right now, and I tell her it's my opinion that self-sacrifice shouldn't go this far, because the whole affair is really giving her stress. And she still wants to be friends.... What should she do? She's just not interested in relationships, but he doesn't seem to understand that...Thank you.
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reader, DanielleMay  +, writes (6 July 2009):
 well for a start you cannot make someone fall in love with you, that isnt right is it? that is a tricky situation your friend is in. she could try and tell him gently, that she is really stressed at the moment and that things are getting on top of her, and she could really do with just a friend and nothing more. or she could just tell him straight forward that she doesnt want to be in a relationship with him, and it will never work, she just wants to be friends. anyway i hope this is any help to you! and let me know how everything goes!
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