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female
age
30-35,
*milyDawn
writes:Is it possible to desire someone sexually so much that your body seems to lay almost restless cause of it?I dated this man, 10years older than me. Im 21, soon to be 22. I enjoyed the time we shared, to the point I liked seeing him almost every day I could. We obviously had sex. He wasnt my first but so far of the few experiences I've had...ive thought about him...I know it might be wrong to feel this way but it's driving me insane. It's like I can see it, if he was here with me doing the things we used to do, exploring. And even though he is a personal trainor and is very fit, I dont feel this attraction towards his looks... There's something there, I just cant explain and it's leaving me restless.I mean, I cant be with him. He went back to his ex-gf, the idea of being together is not even an option at this point. But it's been aprox. 8 months since me and him separated and I honestly havent had any sexual encounters with other men, I havent even kissed any one after him. Even when we talked about it, he never referred it to sex, he called it intimacy, maybe Im from this morbid generation that see's it as sex and blushes at the word intimacy.Can someone tell me what's going on with me? How can I get over this feeling? How long will it take to fade? Did I just take this just too personal? Please someone help
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reader, Pureflame  +, writes (16 January 2015):
it is absolutely possible. but its a phase. trust me.
your answer lies in what you said, that being together isn't an option. If there's nothing you can do about it, its time to move on.
you need to stop giving in to your fantasy, stop adding more fodder to it.
attempting to ignore it and get out there, would be a start.
nothin wrong with being as attracted to someone. you just need to know when to stop. more importantly, you need to choose to stop. not cling on to the blissful imagination or memory
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