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writes: I have a friend she went out with this guy somtime this year but it's been over for a while ok. Now I think I'm starting to like him a bit ....I want to know if it's ok to like your friends ex and if I do tell her about it how do I tell her .I don't think either oen still has feelings for on another.Your advice would help a lot thank you :) Reply to this Question
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reader, softballplaya  +, writes (27 April 2008):
 its perfectly fine!
your young, date who you want to date.
But...ask your friend first and get her opinion on this because she might still be hurt, you never know.
Friends always come before guys, so keep her interests at heart somewhere too.
If she says its okay then pursue a relationship with the boy whom you like=]
take care hon&& good luck!
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reader, benjaminz +, writes (27 April 2008):
This is a dangerous situation and it truly depends on your friendship with your friend. Do understand that you risk your friendship with this even if you hide or expose it. Most relationships don't normally lead to marriage. Everything that has a beginning will have an end.
I tell you to heavily consider the worst case scenario. If you don't care too much about the damage it will add to your relationship then don't do it. If your friendship is something that doesn't matter then do it.
Because regardless what the situation is now. You doing that will reawaken the feelings and the question may be asked. They're more fish in the see why are you cleaning up behind me.
My cousin did that to me. I didn't think i liked the girl anymore. but when he started dating her. I felt real upset we have spoke at all since then. That was nearly 12 years ago.
Once again... which is more important a couple of months of relationship, with some sex with your friends ex? or the longivity of a great friendship that's greater. Only you know the the situation of that.
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