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Deep down I think she really IS the one...

Q.   Hi Guys and Gals, I really need some advice. Me and my longterm gf of 3 years broke up just over a month ago, we havent spoken or seen each other since the break up. Today i get a txt from her saying she has some of my belogings and i have some ...

A.   18 October 2008: tell her the way you feel, it will decide where things go. get back together or done for good. isnt the love of your life worth some effort?... (read in full...)

Found birth control pills in my wife's drawers....is there a way to confirm if she is taking them?

Q.   I found various birth control pills in my wife’s drawer. I had no idea she was taking them. I have wanted to have a baby for some time now. Is there a way to medically confirm she is indeed on the pill? Any other way? She won’t admit she took them. ...

A.   14 October 2008: maybe she doesnt want children, there is nothing wrong with that. men are pretty selfesh about wanting children because they dont have to birth or take care of it, Talk to her, ... (read in full...)

Lack of trust... or lack of commitment?

Q.   Hi. I have a huge problem. I'll quickly tell you things before i get onto the main part. I'm 20 and been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years. Before her, i had 3 girlfriends who all cheated on me. Anyway to the story. About 8 months ago, i...

A.   14 October 2008: if your that worried about it check her phone records to see if she ever calls him, get on the same phone plan its "cheaper" and easier to check numbers. if not let it go, ... (read in full...)

Is he worth a second chance even though he has hit me twice...

Q.   I went on holiday with my boyfriend in sept just gone, i am 29 he is 25 though very wise and mature for his age in some ways. Met a year ago on holiday and started going out in may this year, he suffers from schizophrenia though i never knew how ...

A.   10 October 2008: Yes it is bad enough to leave! He kicked you while you were down what kind of a person does that even if they are drunk... however if it is mental illness then i would tell him if he wants me to stay he needs to give me and docters his permission to ... (read in full...)

I always tell me gf where I am and what I'm doing but she never does the same I always have to ask her! Am I being unreasonable??

Q.   ok so here we go. i tell my gf wat im doing and where im going just so she doesnt have to wonder or let her imagination go crazy thinking im doing things. my gf doesnt tell me anything i always have to ask its not so much that im tryyin to be ...

A.   10 October 2008: Either she has something to hide, likes privacy or just isnt used to having to tell someone where she is. stop telling her where you go, plan a guys weekend and dont mention anything about it. when she gets curious tell her thats how you feel about ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend always seems to make a mountain out of a molehill. Any suggestions?

Q.   My girlfriend makes a big issue out of the slightest thing! I think? It's like the rhyme, There once was girl, who had a little curl, right in the middle of her forehead, When she was good, she was very very good, But when she was bad she was horr...

A.   9 October 2008: tell her you want to watch the game and see if your guests could arrive at 7. ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to get bored with someone you've been with for awhile?

Q.   im 23 years old, ive been with my girlfriend for a little over 3 years now. i know i love her n i know she loves me...we treat eachother with respect, rarley ever argue...but alot of times i find myself thinking of what if i was with someone else. i ...

A.   9 October 2008: its totally normal to get boered. try spicing it up. go on vacation. get kinky. talk to her about the need to spice things up. she will likely agree. dont throw it away, its hard to find something good. my brother got bored with a woman he really ... (read in full...)

How can we get through this without destroying each other?

Q.   During my four year relationship with my husband I have uncovered several lies that he has told me. I am feeling extremely hurt, disappointed and let down, but he suggests that most of them were only white lies, therefor he does not understand why ...

A.   9 October 2008: if you love him try therapy, relationships are hard its ok to need a little help ... (read in full...)

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