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writes:This is not really a question. I just need to understand whether the way I feel is normal. I have seen in many posts in dear cupid that many women are worried about their bf/husband getting turned on by other girs, watching porn, etc. But in my case, I get so aroused by the fact that my long term boyfriend is all hot about other girls. The two of us have a great sex life together. But he is very much interested in looking at other girls photos,etc. Even when we are together, when there is some sexy girl with revealing clothes, i know what must be going on in his mind and i get so aroused by the fact. I sometimes even feel like feeling his dick to see how hard he has gotton by seeing someone else.At night sometimes when he thinks I'm sleeping, he watches pictures of half naked girls in the comp and I can sometimes see him rubbing himself. This is a sure fire way to get me all wet. Afterward he gets in to the bed and masturbates while i watch (without him knowing, ofcourse) and i enjoy it so much. Is this normal? Is there anyone out their who feels like me. Please share your stories with me, if any.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (21 May 2010):
 This is actually a very common thing to get turned on by. Don't feel ashamed of it. There are two things. One, you're seeing something you're not supposed to see, so there's an adrenaline rush. Two, you're seeing something very sexual. Many people are turned on by watching their partner masturbate. So those two things combined would make you very excited in many ways. Just do long as you're not going out of your way to spy, don't worry about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 May 2010): Well I can certainly reassure you that I have heard of many women who get turned on by the things you have described. So I would say you are definitely normal. Different people get turned on by different things, there is no right or wrong. x
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reader, dragonfire +, writes (21 May 2010):
 You are a natural thing and your just excited by your man diff. ways of getting excited. If what he's doing turns you on why dont you see if another woman in the bed turns you on further....lol
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