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writes:My boyfriend I went to NY for valentine day. After meeting with friends and having some drinks we ended up at the club where we got more drinks. After several more I got black out. My boyfirend told me next morning that I was making out with some guy at the club. Meaning kissing. Which I totaly do not remember. He said it did not bother him becouse any way I was going home with him. But it does bothers me. I am 34 and I had only 3 man in my life. And I am bothered by that fact that I was kissing a guy and do not remember and he did nothing he just stayed and watched and just said it did not bother him. Is that normal? or why he would act that way?
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reader, Lulu-Lemons  +, writes (18 February 2009):
 Firstly, do you normally black-out when you drink? If you don't, I'd go see a doctor or something...
Secondly, I think it's kind of cute that he said it didn't bother him because he knew you were going home with him.
That said, I think your man should've watched out for you better and not let you get taken advantage of like that by that other random guy.
I wouldn't say that's "normal" behavior by any means, but still, running over and punching the guy you were kissing wouldn't have been that great either.
Try talking to him about it, and how it makes you feel. Telling him what you think is really the only way for him to know.
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