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Is it normal that fantasies fulfill me and not actually having intercourse?

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Question - (12 February 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 February 2007)
A male age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have read somewhere that our subconscious mind understands only images. So does it mean if we can visualize about having an intercourse with someone so that almost similar images are created in subconscious, it is almost equal to a real one? I mean i do see my self esteem getting affected when i fantacize about some woman i really desire and it gives me quite some satisfaction to the extent of not being interested in having an intercourse in real. Do you think this is normal?

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (12 February 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntWell... are you happy with your current situation? If you're happy, then I think you're perfectly fine. If you've got a girlfriend and she's being neglected due to you not needing sex, well - that could cause problems. But, if there's no one in your life that is getting left out and you're really happy with yourself...

There's nothing wrong with some self-love!

Enjoy, sweetness.

(you're totally normal)

xxIndia

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (12 February 2007):

eyeswideopen agony auntNot sure about how "normal" this is but it certainly is cheaper than dinner and a movie, plus talk about safe sex!

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