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writes:I've been sleeping with my boyfriend for about six months, he was my first and so far I haven't been able to come through sex. I don't really mind as it still feels really good but I was wondering if you had any tips, is it normal not to come from sex??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2007): have you tried going on top?i only cum if i go on top.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (30 August 2007):
 It may seem normal because its common but it surely isnt. Sexual ecstacy shouldnt be an exclusive commodity to only men but even to women. However its just hard to come for women especially if you havent been stimulated well b4 intercourse. But try to mustarbate so that you can find out which parts of your sexual body, when played with can help you come.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): You have to feel comfortable yourself before you can cum having sex. Try exploring yourself and see what feels good and what you like. Once you can do it yourself, you will be able to during sex in time. You also have to be relaxed and feel comfortable with your partner. You will need to have good open communication with him. I didn't have my first orgasm for 4 years after I met my husband and I have been able to get myself off since I was 15. I was 21 when I had my first orgasm during sex. Don't worry, give it time. Good Luck!
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reader, love-him  +, writes (29 August 2007):
 Hey bbe, it is so normal not to come.. im the same, as many women are, i cant come.. you dont let yourself.. you want to but you just cant get to it.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x
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reader, belle79 +, writes (29 August 2007):
 hi, its very common not to come during sexual intercourse, this will take time and depends on the relationship you are in. Have you experienced different positions? maybe try foreplay, have him explore your female areas and see what turns you on. discuss fantasies and what you enjoy. Relax too, dont be in a rush to acheive an orgasm take it slowly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): Can you have an orgasm by yourself? If so, it's likely that you'll someday have one through sex. Relax and don't worry about it. Though you might try changing positions -- some women have a better time with different angles. And don't forget your button -- you'll have an easier time if that gets stimulation, too.
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