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When is a good time to start doing things like going and hanging out with friend, activating my Facebook again?

Q.   Hello .. Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anythi...

A.   31 May 2012: Thank you guys,it helps to know im not a bad person for wanting to live,i think i will hold out on the whole facebook thing for a couple of days just cause i'm not very comfortable with the thought yet,but i will be soon i can feel it. Thanks again ... (read in full...)

Bothered by the idea of losing my Virginity to a non-virgin....

Q.   Hi all, Just gonna be simple about this. I am a 17 year old boy who wants to save my virginity for marriage but I am bothered by the idea of losing my virginity to a non-virgin. I would just feel slighted in that I wasn't their first and they d...

A.   2 May 2011: i don't think losing your virginity to a person you dont have feelings for is a good idea,i know where you are coming from with that idea but in my opinon it should be someone that means a lot to you. i think if you've found the perfect person f... (read in full...)

Can sophomores date freshmen?

Q.   This may seem like a silly question when compared to the degree of severety other questions on this website demand, but I am doubtful of my own reasoning. I recently have acquired an infatuation for this girl who's a grade below me. She is very ...

A.   12 January 2011: You should go for it,it doesn't look bad and it isn't bad of you. if you think you will be happy then do it :)... (read in full...)

I feel I have no choice but to leave him and move on

Q.   Hi, I have been thinking for a while now and feel it is time to move on with my life and break up with my boyfriend. i love him a lot but they way we are with each other is very unhealthy. He says he hates me and i tell him he needs to stop bu...

A.   12 January 2011: Thank you guys so much for being understanding,i really thank you so much for your advice and i have taken it. i told him that i don't feel the need to stick around anymore, because i don't feel the same at all, and he said "if you go and leave do... (read in full...)

Is he just keeping me around for his own personal gain?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and we decided to be friends. We broke up on good terms, he had said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. And he wanted to break up so he doesn't hurt me. So we became friends. Well about a ...

A.   9 January 2011: No problem,hope things work out for you guys :)... (read in full...)

When boyfriend gets angry he is verbally abusive

Q.   I have been in a relationship with a man for almost a year and a half. I love him VERY much and he feels the same for me. The problem is, when he gets angry, he is verbally abusive. He says things that he knows will hurt me, things that are so ...

A.   30 December 2010: I am in the same position,my boyfriend says he hates me and that he wishes that i was different. so i told him to leave me,he says that he knows we have a future and that is worth more than a couple of fights and bad words. even though it soun... (read in full...)

Is he just keeping me around for his own personal gain?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and we decided to be friends. We broke up on good terms, he had said that he doesn't want to be in a relationship. And he wanted to break up so he doesn't hurt me. So we became friends. Well about a ...

A.   30 December 2010: It could be that he misses you,but his reason for you guys breaking up could still be true. Maybe you guys need to stop talking for a little to see if he really wants to be with or just missed having you by his side all the time like when you guys ... (read in full...)

I thought my mom would understand when I came out to her!

Q.   I just came out to my mom because I thought I was ready. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 4 months the first ever person I had been in a relationship with and I needed to talk to her about it. I thought she'd understand after all she's liberal ...

A.   24 December 2010: I'm very sorry to hear about that,it may be hard right now but being gay isn't wrong.. it's being you My mother is lesbian and she thought i would never speak to her again when she told me,but i thought it took alot of courage to come out. I thi... (read in full...)

Is it normal for me to be in such pain after my first time?

Q.   hi well i had sex for the first time today..it didnt hurt but now after im really really sore my legs and everything...is this normal? i know they say it hurts the first time and in the process it didnt not really it was like a bee sting but now im ...

A.   24 November 2010: Yes,the soreness is complety normal and should stop in a couple of days. you might wanna try to strech more often so you won't get as sore... (read in full...)

Why do guys like angry sex?

Q.   Hey guys =D I got a question, why do guys like 'angry sex'?? I've heard about this in shows and stuff as a joke but my boyfriend told me he gets turned on when we argue. Specifically if we've argued and he tries to cuddle up and play I tell him not ...

A.   24 November 2010: i like angry sex sometimes,but only when my boyfriend is the one mad. he usually gets mad at me for stupid things and when he starts yelling it makes him seem more manly and i think that's a turn on. i might just be weird but i love it! cause if he ... (read in full...)

My new guy makes no effort to pleasure me, Opinions please.

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months (I've known him for years) but we havent had sex. I was with a guy before and we had done everything so it took time to adjust with my new boyfriend. I know this isn't what a relationship should be about but ...

A.   23 November 2010: i don't think it would be selfish of you to ask for toys or something to pleasure you. You said you've done stuff for him so why can't he do stuff for you? I mean that if you were planing to just have sex when you were both ready. Maybe you should ... (read in full...)

I have a new boyfriend but cant stop thinking about my ex!

Q.   so i was with my ex for 8 months before we broke up. we were both in love and i was happy with him except it was long distance and we talked maybe twice a week. we were broken up for about 3 weeks before i got with my current boyfriend(we've been ...

A.   23 November 2010: I think that you still care about your ex but it might just be that you haven't had enough time to get over it. Breaking up is hard obviously but you still have to remember that you still need time to heal. I was with my ex for 3 years and i still ... (read in full...)

I feel like I can't trust him

Q.   I kinda need help my boyfriend thinks i'm mad all the time,i mean i kinda am but just cause his bestrfiend told me about some girl he used to date and how he went to go see her while i was at school. i feel like i can't ever trust him and he just ...

A.   17 November 2010: Well i talked to him about it and he told me he went to go pick up a usb cable that he left there a while back when they were together. i can't tell if he is lying but i guess i'll go with it for now. He told me that he was sorry for not telling me ... (read in full...)

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