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Is it normal for boyfriends to not let their girlfriends know that they've been on the phone with other girls?

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Question - (26 August 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 August 2014)
A female Singapore age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This question is rather trivial, but I would like to know whether its

normal for boyfriends to not let their girlfriends know that they've been on the phone with other girls? My boyfriend recently commented that if there was anything he did that might potentially spark off an argument with me, he would not tell me, one of which includes being on the phone with girls.

I'm a little confused, because:

1. I don't see anything wrong with being on the phone with the opposite sex, unless the other party is calling each other everyday and talking for hours on end.

2. Perhaps it could be for an assignment and a female classmate is just calling to ask questions

3. Even if you are skyping your friend who is overseas once in awhile (perhaps once a month?) Different people have different variations of once in awhile), there is really nothing wrong because you don't get to see your friend often and that is the only form of communication

So why does he think he has to hide these from me out of fear that I would misunderstand? Fyi, we have been together for a year now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2014):

Yes. If loves and respect you he wont tell what he knows that will just hurt you n confuse you why he have to.

But if he have plans to leave you thats the time the guy become honest.

He wants to hurt your feelings. So you will hate him. Give you reason to break up with him.

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