A
male
age
22-25,
Hitch
writes:How does one deal with being insecure, not knowing whether your the only one. You women claim to suffer the most in relationships but this is not always the case. You too hurt men and encourage them to go and hurt other women on the end. Guess this is a vicious cycle that will just go on and on. I really love my Girl friend or should I rather say obsession. She says she feels the same way but I do not trust her at all. It took me about a couple of months to decide that I needed to detach myself emotionally its not easy but its the best medicine. When in a relationship guess we do tend to rush things and thats the price we pay. I have learned so much and willing to help others so ask me and lets see how we can make things better.
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reader, Annalisa  + ♥, writes (13 February 2008):
 Ah, common misconception... Women don't suffer more than men, we are more dramatic about our pain and try to heal it. Men on the other hand tend to build up walls, until you find yourselves alone and bitter and realising you've lost all faith in womankind!
Learn from experience, take your time in relationships, give your love and your trust unconditionally. Don't let your current girl pay for the hurt caused by an ex, they are not the same person. Communication is the key to every relationship: talk openly, be honest, be loving and tender, listen and accept what she says. Give her space to love you, and she will!
God bless you!
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