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writes:Is it okay to talk to different guys online while you are not committed to any of them yet? Do you consider it cheating when each of these guys doesn't know you talk to others as well? I know for sure these guys talk to other ladies on dating sites and its ok with me, but I feel guilty on my part.I have the right to select and not disclose it, right? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 August 2009): It all depends on what you talk about.... I have an online friend, we have in depth discussions about life, we talk about our spouses, we have cybersex...
So yes... in my case, I am cheating!
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (13 August 2009):
 I think until it gets serious with one guy then you are fine to keep on talking to other guys. I've just met someone online within the last 3 weeks and we have been out twice now, and I think we are starting to quite like each other so I am cooling off most of my contact with other guys online.
But until you reach that point then talk to as many guys as you want! Dating sites are all about talking to lots of people to establish a connection and then narrowing it down once you have maybe met up or have been talking to each other for a while.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Jason32477 +, writes (13 August 2009):
 Of course it`s not cheating.With out any commitments how can it be?When I was single I talked to more than one girl at once,even dated a few at the same time.Personally I wouldn`t lie about it.But if you not asked there`s no obligation to disclose.
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