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Is it cheating if I fantasize about having a relationship with someone else?

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Question - (18 May 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 May 2009)
A male United States age 36-40, *EScott1985 writes:

I masturbate often thinking about Mariah Carey. I guess you could say that Mariah is my fantasy girlfriend. Is it cheating if I fantasize about having a relationship with a woman other than my wife?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (19 May 2009):

don't they say cheating begins in the head, meaning our thought process.

i don't know how much MC is on your thoughts, as long as you do not scream out her name in bed then i am guessing its just a fantasy right. thank God the fantasy is not Whoopi Goldberg.

(try giving MC some competition and start fantacising about the Mrs a little. )

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

I disagree with pinklady1989, "

men always read porn mags and think about sexy when when masturbating it is what women expect"

I expect nothing of the sort from my fiance. However, if his big thing is some superstar, then it's really no harm, as long as he's not doing these things when he's with his wife.

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A female reader, sammi star United Kingdom +, writes (18 May 2009):

sammi star agony auntThis isn't cheating, everyone does it from time to time, not just men! x

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