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writes:there is this guy I met who was in the marine, we only got to hang out for a while before he had to leave to Afghanistan. The thing is I like him and he told me he like me as well and he wanted to keep in touch with writing letters and facebook until he gets back. Once I became friends with him on facebook is when I found out he has many female friends, they write to him such intimate things that make me a little jealous or how he calls them but never me. I know we don't know each other long but I still don't want to be play a fool if those female friends are more then that. Is it bad that a guy has many female friends?
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reader, SmilySmily  +, writes (5 December 2010):
Well My friend is sorta in the same situation like yourself. I told her that he might be a player but you don't know him well enough to know whether he is or not and He could simply have many female friends. I know the facebook thing and flirting things bit annoying but I think you need to get to know him better and do the letter and stuffs first to find out what kinda guy is..but well always becareful with men who have loads of female friends.....!!!
Good luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): I have been in a very familiar situation to this. The guy has a lot of femae friends and in my case he was what you'd call a "player". I'm not saying this guy is, but it's a possibility.
Some guys just have a lot of female friends. I'm sure he has male friends too, but because you like him you're focusing on the female ones.
If you like him, then carry on with the letters etc... till he gets back. When he does get back see how it goes.
Try not to let these other friends get to you because it could be completely innocent and he's probably known them a lot longer than you.
Whatever you do, don't mention this issue to him while he's over there becuase he doesn't need that on his mind.
Keep us updated. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2010): there's a difference between having female friends and female flings and flirts!
friends mean people he hangs out with and trusts and shares secrets with without any sexual implication or flirtatious terms whatsoever!
you just started with that man, and if i were you i'd be careful and clarify it with him, maybe he's not serious and into commitment cause he's on a mission abroad! however the facebook things are a bit suspicious.
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