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writes:This is my first carrier in the US. I’m going back to my country and when I come back I want to bring some chocolate and goodies from my country for few of my collegues that I don’t know them well and also more gifts for two executive directors, one of the executive helped me to get a fulltime position and I specially want to thank him. My question: is it appropriate to do such a thing? I don’t know that much about the culture here so I don’t want to do something unusual. I appreciate your help. Reply to this Question
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reader, bluecow  +, writes (15 December 2011):
 hiya
its is very appropriate. At this time of year especially!
Can I suggest though that to prevent any sort of gossips/noses out of joint that you do two things.
Buy one bigger box of choccys for the people in the office you work in. Let them help themselves, rather than giving individual presents.
Buy a large box of (more expensive) choccies etc for the executives, and perhaps you could mention to the person who helped you get the job that "you really appreciated it, and do try one of these (the expensive choccies) as theyre a speciality".
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (15 December 2011):
 Hi,
I know that different countries have different cultures and I think it's very thoughtful of you to ask, think and consider. In my opinion, gifts are welcome in any language or country. It's very nice gesture. Since you don't know these people well, do not buy too expensive gifts. Something small, simple, but it will have a lot of meaning to them. Respect and appreciation.
Good luck/ happy holidays!!!
Ps: have a safe trip and hope you have an amazing time back home with your friends and family
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