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Is it appropriate for a 17 year old female to date a 14 year old male?

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Question - (27 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2007)
A female Australia age 18-21, anonymous writes:

Hiya I'm a 17 year old girl (I'll be 18 in September and going to college) and I wanna know if it's inappropriate to date a fellow who's 14?

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A male reader, Friend Tom United States + , writes (29 March 2007):

Friend Tom agony aunt You don't say what you mean by "date". If it is just being friends and hanging out occasionally, there is nothing wrong with this as far as I can see. I had several "friends who were girls", not GF's in the popular meaning, who were a few years older than me when I was fourteen or fifteen. There was nothing "inappropriate" about it. We just happened to be neighbors and friends for a long time and had many like interests. If you are talking about a romantic involvement, however,...I would forget it. Therein lies trouble. Or if he should get the idea that you are interested in such a relationship, that could also cause problems. Guys that age are as vulnerable as girls the same age. Caution.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007):

its not a very good idea,you could be prosecuted if you persue this nonsense,dont damage yourself for life being known as a registered sex offender

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A female reader, Lady tinks United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2007):

Lady tinks agony auntwouldn't advise it hun he is underage and you should be out with people of you own age. if you wanna wait for him then fair enough- don't break the law! good luck sweety x

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (27 March 2007):

home_land agony aunthello

don't do that, he is under child law protection

and it's not healthy .

good luck

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