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Is it appropriate for a 17 year old female to date a 14 year old male?

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Question - (27 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 March 2007)
A female Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hiya I'm a 17 year old girl (I'll be 18 in September and going to college) and I wanna know if it's inappropriate to date a fellow who's 14?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2007):

You don't say what you mean by "date". If it is just being friends and hanging out occasionally, there is nothing wrong with this as far as I can see. I had several "friends who were girls", not GF's in the popular meaning, who were a few years older than me when I was fourteen or fifteen. There was nothing "inappropriate" about it. We just happened to be neighbors and friends for a long time and had many like interests. If you are talking about a romantic involvement, however,...I would forget it. Therein lies trouble. Or if he should get the idea that you are interested in such a relationship, that could also cause problems. Guys that age are as vulnerable as girls the same age. Caution.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2007):

its not a very good idea,you could be prosecuted if you persue this nonsense,dont damage yourself for life being known as a registered sex offender

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A female reader, Lady tinks United Kingdom +, writes (27 March 2007):

Lady tinks agony auntwouldn't advise it hun he is underage and you should be out with people of you own age. if you wanna wait for him then fair enough- don't break the law! good luck sweety x

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A male reader, home_land Germany +, writes (27 March 2007):

home_land agony aunthello

don't do that, he is under child law protection

and it's not healthy .

good luck

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