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30-35,
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writes:I'm not a social butterfly I'm a little shy because I don't know how to start a conversation most of the time. Anyhow I keep catching this guy in my class checking me out usually I'd see him out of the corner of my eye. Until recently I caught him dead on gazing at me hard. I stood up to leave school and he was looking at my body until he looked to see if I was looking and his eyes jerked, I smiled at him and chuckled. I guess he got nervous and paced for a second and left class. Is this a bad idea to slip him my name and number when I'm sitting at the computers which is right beside where he sits all the time?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2012): go for it, what have you got to lose?? :)
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reader, HappyPlace  +, writes (1 June 2012):
 Let him do the running and let him slip his number to you. Generally in the wild, the females have the males do all sorts of things to get their attention, like the Hares in March, where the female has to fight off the attention of several suitors by literally boxing them until she finds the right one. Don't forget though it is the males that clamber for the female's attention. Some feminists might berate me for this, saying the women should be in control and if that want to ask that guy out on a date, then so be it. There is a book on the internet called "Catch him and Keep him", written by a man, in which he states this very same thing. Let the man ask you out on a date!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2012): I'd say go for it. I had a similar case with a guy in my class once and it took ages to work up the courage, but it was totally worth giving him my number. It took a week or so for him to contact me, so dont be discouraged if you dont get a text or a call straight away. Me and this guy didnt work out romantically but now we're best friends, so you should go for it. You never know how things might end up.
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reader, Myau  +, writes (1 June 2012):
 Wanna say yes.But before that try the "bump into" trick.Which is you walk into him and make it seem like an accident. When he asks if your ok, your in.
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