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*oGreen126
writes:Hi,I've been in a happy relationship for a year and a half with the most wonderful guy in the world.It seems to me like I have commitment issues because every few months something little happens (not like a fight, we can get through those. It's more that we feel like we're not on the same page. He's cracking jokes when I feel crappy, etc.). In the past, I had broken off the relationship every time I had one of these urges. In my current relationship, however, I stick it out. Recently, though, it has been very strong. I really want to dump this guy even though I love him and he hasn't done anything to prompt it.Is it abnormal that I have this urge?Should I act on it?Thank you,GG Reply to this Question
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 I think that it is normal at your age because there is no reason you should be tied down to anyway. If you are not happy with the relationship then you should end it based on that reason alone. Right now it's not about spending your life with someone it is about growing as a person and that might mean dating different people.
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reader, dannn  +, writes (15 March 2011):
I think you've thought about it fairly well, relationships have their ups and downs, people get cold feet at times, get sick of the other person or have "gut" feelings to leave. If he's treating you well, I think you should definitely stick with him, I'm sure it'll pass. And if it doesn't then you'll know what to do.Good luck :)
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