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writes:ok, i am a 14 year old male and in year 10, i was never really too interested in girls .. until i got into high school, when i had a transfer day to high school (a day just to see what i was like) i 'loved' this girl, and i knew she 'loved' me .. i never believed in the saying 'love at first sight' but when i saw this girl .. it wasn't her looks or anything like that .. it seemed like we just 'clicked' .. i loved everything about her and same vise-versa, and when it came to going to that school (like forever, not transfer day) i was her boyfriend within 5 days .. i was going out with her for about 1 month, but we finished because we didn't see much of each other (because we lived to far away from each other). now we are boyfriend and girlfriend again .. but is it a good idea, we still live a long way away from each other, but i can see her more .. people have said ''going out with your ex-girlfriend is always a bad idea'' but i ignored them and went back out with her .. im just curious, is it normally a good idea ? and in my situation what do you think ? p.s. i have now been going out with her for 1 week and we 'love' each other very much thanks
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (21 September 2010):
 Going out with your ex girlfriend is only a bad idea if you guys broke up for a significant reason. Like, if she cheated on you, or treated you badly. But, if you guys just were having problems with being so far away from each other, and now that problem is solved, why not date? You guys still really like each other and there doesn't seem to be anything wrong with your relationship.
I say go for it! And forget what other people think, what matters is that you and her make each other happy. Good luck, sweet!
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reader, Mimzyluv +, writes (21 September 2010):
If both of you feel so strongly towards each other, than no distance should be too great! Forget what "everyone" says, follow your heart!
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