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Is he still interested? Or are we just going to be mates?

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Question - (8 February 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 20 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *usi writes:

hi just to give you an update regarding my questions rwith lad who i met who said was too busy.

I bumped into him last night while out on the town celebrating my promotion. He walked into a bar on his own looking for his mates, my friends said that he didnt look too surprised to see me.

First thing he asked me was whether i got the job and that he was really pleased for me as knew that i would get it.

He said that he still had my number which i was bit confused about as when he said was too busy assumed just got rid of it. But said still had it and would give me a ring.

When his mates arrived he explained that he was going to see them which i said he didnt need to and checked that i was with m8s etc as said that he didnt want to leave me on my own.

I was bit nervous seeing him again and bit jealous when couple of lasses turned up.

Then he walked out of the bar without any of his workmates and female mates went after him.

Not sure what happened and was bit worried about him as he said that he was bit merry.

Sent him a text saying you were a bit merry before. Hope you get home ok. Couple minutes later i got a text back off him saying that he was going home. Well done for getting new job. I knew you would get it. I hope that you have had a good night.x

Now i'm a bit confused and dont know what to think. Think that we're going to be just good mates or that hes still interested? Would value any advice. Thanks

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 February 2009):

My Love. What a silly game, he appears to know where you were and what you were up to. Good luck with the new job i am really pleased for you and,so is HE. Listen the fire boys think? they are the new movie stars. They do a great job but they have groupies, dont be one. like him want him. but make him want you. As you said the little entourage chased him out of the bar, be classie than them dont chase him,then he will chase you, although dont be cold,just be cool and wanting. i feel for them because he wanted you to chase him out of the bar and you didnt. Keep it cool, he will be yours, he wont be used to a cool sexy lady that will make you even more of a come on.

With you.

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A female reader, susi United Kingdom +, writes (8 February 2009):

susi is verified as being by the original poster of the question

hi hes just started as a fireman so work 2 day, 2 night shifts and then 4 days off

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 February 2009):

He's told you he's too busy yet he's not too busy to go out with his mates, right? What does that tell you? Sounds like he likes you as an acquaintance but not in a romantic way.

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