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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hello, I'm really confused about this situation and wonder if anyone here knows of anything similar.I met this guy at a party about a month ago and it seemed that we both were really interested in each other - he was being quite flirtatious towards me and I thought I was reciprocating it, and very recently (past week or two) he kept coming to my house to see me. I felt like he obviously liked me and I thought it was obvious that I reciprocated it but today I found out he has started seeing some other girl. I wouldn't mind all too much aside from the fact he kept on visiting me and I thought there wasn't much of an explanation other than he was interested. Also I had talked to him the night before and he told me he was going to bed, but the next day the girl he went out with told me she saw him a few hours after he told me he was going to bed.I just don't understand why he would fake being interested for about a month then suddenly see some girl, as well as lie about actually seeing her. I don't understand whether he's just playing me or whether he didn't think I liked him like that.I know there's nothing I can really do but the situation has kind of hurt me so I was wondering whether anyone would have some sort of idea what he did this for. Thank you xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2010): It sounds like he's a player. Since you'd been hanging out for a month and nothing has happened (I'm assuming, as you haven't mentioned anything physical), he might not be "getting what he wants," so to speak, and has decided to move on to someone who might be more "easy."
I wouldn't let it bother you that he's seemingly moved on, as guys like this aren't worth the time of day.
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