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writes: i met this guy at a party three weeks ago and we talked all night, we ended up snoggin, we exchanged numbers and he phoned me on the 23rd june and we met up, he ws really full on, we went back to mine and there was no one in so we sat downstairs for a bit but then he "needed the loo" as he said, he didnt at all! just wanted to get his arse upstairs! so we ended up upstairs and just sat on my bed makin out and stuff, he has his hand down my pants and i had mine down his, but nothing else happened.. i was on MSN yesterdayy and he told me to f___ him so i was like "you what"! i wa like.. so i f___ you and never see you again, and he put it no f___ me and keep me forever. i was like awwww i found it soo cute but then kinda cheesy?! is he just in it for the sex? or does he like me?
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reader, HelenaB  +, writes (3 July 2008):
Your so young! All I would say would be if you do have sex with him, be prepared that it could be all he is after. It may turn into a blossoming relationship but it may not. Have you slept with anyone before? Its a big step if you have and an even bigger step if you haven't!
Just do whatever YOU want to do I would say, and just don't put too much into it and be prepared for the consequences if it is all he is after - don't let him upset you or unbalance your life, if you can do it and just enjoy it then great, if you can't, then don't!
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (3 July 2008):
 you were like awww thats so cute? no offence or anything but that is in no way cute or sweet. he shouldnt be talking to you like that. to be honest i would take wat he says with a pinch of salt. it sounds like he may be just in it for the sex and in all fairness he hasnt made much effort to hide the fact that he wants it from you. cheesy and cute? have some respect or yourself!!
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reader, BloodlustBakura  +, writes (3 July 2008):
He sounds like he's in it for the sex if that's the first thing he said to you
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): Hang on, he makes an excuse to use your loo just to get you upstairs for some serious making out, and then he uses the term "F____ me"? And you think it's cute?
Take it from someone a little older and more experienced in men, that's not cute, it's not romantic and it's rather disrespectful. Also, to say "f___ me and keep me forever" rather suggests that if you don't sleep with him he'll leave you, which then suggests that if you do sleep with him he'll leave you sooner or later anyway when someone new smiles his way. The language he uses is also very immature as well - no mature, decent, GOOD guy would just come out with "f___ me"!
Is he in it just for the sex? I'd say a big, bright red, all singing, all dancing Y-E-S!
You can do better - and if you don't get tangled up with this guy you probably will!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2008): You find that cute! God I like to see what you're like when you get an actually nice comment. He's just trying to get into your pants and it looks like it's working
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