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writes:im 15, me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 4 months. i love hanging out with him, but it seems like whenever we go to his house he just wants to do 'things' like he doesnt even want to be with me. but i do things (not sex) with him to make him happy. is he just being a regular horny teenager or should i be paying more attention to it?
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reader, Princesswavey  +, writes (10 February 2010):
Dont have sex with him unless you are ready to and if your having second thoughts then your not ready .
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reader, Stuart93 +, writes (10 February 2010):
Well most males in the Teenager stage are horny (I am for one..) but as the other posters do say try and talk a bit more rather then do things to please him as he will get it into his head that he could have you anytime he wants.. Like lets say you both decide to have sex (Not saying you should) and he pushes you more and more to do it more... And you want to please him.. You will become more or else his Sex Slave till he gets bored or finds another girl.
I hope it works out for you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (10 February 2010):
You're supposed to talk and spend time together, not just do 'things' at his house. Yes, he is no doubt a horny teenager, but you need to tell him that unless you spend time together doing other things, there's no point in you being together.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (10 February 2010):
 He is a horny teenager but if you two can never just spend time together to talk, even if it before and after you do things then yeah it is something to worry about. When I'm with my gf we do spend almost every evening together doing things but we also have some of the most intimate coversations (about everything) before and after. You should be able to have fun with the boy without anything sexual. If thats not the case then I question his intentions with being with you. How often are you at his place? If its only once a week or every two weeks then thats normal but if your over there a couple of times a week or run to his house for that when ever you have free time then thats a problem.
Hope this helps.
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