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female
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36-40,
*T1
writes:Here's the dilemma:I've been friends with this guy for a number of years now, he's almost 2 years younger than me (he’s 18), so until recently he hasn't been so mature - he has been known among our friends as a flirt. On the weekend, as apart of a youth group, I stayed at his family's home, so of course he was there. I was one of 6 people staying there and he mostly paid attention to me, flirting, talking, complimenting me in front of others etc - there were 3 guys and 2 other girls there and he really didn't have much to do with them. I've been developing feelings for him over a period of time and this weekend has heightened them. Ordinarily, I would think after what happened on the weekend meant he was interested too, but I'm not sure. On the last day, he was rather distant towards me (and almost everyone who stayed at his house for that matter, I know he was very tired). When we met up with the main group, he mainly spent all of the time with his best friend. Although, he hugged me twice, very sincerely just before I left. So I'm so confused...Question: Do you think he likes me, or is just his old flirt ways resurfacing? (it did feel different though from what he used to be like)
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reader, Orlando  +, writes (1 February 2008):
 It sounds like he does but the best thing to do is wait for the golden oppurtinity, when both of your feelings towards each other are obvious, instead of going out on a limb to find out what he thinks of you, because if it was just friendly flirting you might be crushed. . .
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