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female
age
41-50,
*anting him back
writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for about 5 months. I have two concerns. First, he does not express his feelings. He says he loves me everyday but that is about it. He will not say anymore. He says he just don't show his feelings. He does act as if he is in love with me, because he is here every second he is not at work or in bed. I just would like to know that I am special to him. Not just another "girlfriend" that we are going somewhere.second, he only wants sex about once a week, I on the other hand want it everyday. He has a bad back and he says it hurts him to have it too often. It's not that he is not attracted to me or that I do not please him. How do I know if he is attracted to me? when he is not a very passionate man that wont show his feelings. I want for him to act as if he has to have me right now. Is this just him? or is he just setteling untill he finds someone that realy gets his motor running?
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reader, Gridrebel +, writes (17 March 2010):
 It sounds like he is not the man you want him to be. He has given you valid "excuses" and explanations for his personality and behavior but it doesn't satisfy your "need" for more. Give the guy a break. If you aren't into him the way he is, then go easy on him and quit trying to force him to be someone or something he obviously isn't. Not all men are the gaga, romantic, place you on a pedestool type. Instead of trying to change him, why don't you find the type of man who does fit your needs and likes.
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