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Q.   my boyfriend loves me a lot..but whneevr hes wid his frnds he doesnt attend my calls..nor reply to my msg..at dat gves mre importnce to his frnds rather thn m...tell m wht to do so dat he realise my importnce in his life??/ wht shld gals tok abt...

A.   5 September 2008: you can do better sorry to say but break- u and if he says why tell him why and when he is with his friends he could be with girl like ya.... (read in full...)

Is he getting scared or something, or has the relationship just plataued?

Q.   Hi, I'm 37 yrs and I met a guy who's is 34 on a dating website 4 months ago. We hit it off immediately, I've met his family, we've been together every day since we met. He used to tell me all the time how he is loves me, how attracted he is to me, ...

A.   5 September 2008: ask he what's the matter and say that if he doesnt tell u then how are you suppose to get married when ur not telling serious stuff.(I think he cheated on you)... (read in full...)

Help! He will kill me...how do I escape safely?

Q.   I have a 16 month old daughter who has had to live with my parents because of the relationship i am in. I just dont know how to get out of it, he always tracks me down.. even in a womans refuge and when he is nice, he is lovely but my body cant cope ...

A.   5 September 2008: your parents are rude! ok when your out far away from him call the police or go to the police station. go at night and send him to jail.... (read in full...)

Do these signs mean that I'm pregnant?

Q.   I think i mite be pregnant but im not sure. I was due to come on today. I took 2 pregnancy tests yesterday. A cheap brand I took at lunchtime showed a very, very faint positive line, i mean extremely faint. I went straight out and bought a mor...

A.   5 September 2008: try to go to a doctor. that's the only way to find out or let the days pass by and see if ur stomach gets big.... (read in full...)

Complicated love triangle and I need urgent help!

Q.   I am 19 and I've been in a long-distance relationship for 4 years. I live in the United States and he lives in Europe so we only get to see each other once a year, during the summer for 3 months. Everything has been going great though, we talk ...

A.   5 September 2008: dont go back to him he hurt you for someone he new for only a couple of days and he's treating you two like objects. like you've been together for 4 yrs and you'd that he would pick you.... (read in full...)

Does he like me or was he just bored and drunk?

Q.   Well basically, i had amazing sex with my best guy friend. We always talk, and before this, he would text me near enough everyday, although this had only been going on for about a month beforehand. He knew I liked him, I told him monthssss back, ...

A.   5 September 2008: I think he like you.... (read in full...)

Hate to think of them together - my best friend and her boyfriend who I started to like before they even dated!

Q.   My best friend, let's call her Rachel, is going out with this boy, let's call him Joe. They were good friends for nearly a year, and I met him through her, so we're friends too. Anyway that's just 'setting the scene' .. basically, I started to like ...

A.   5 September 2008: you should've told your feeling towards "joe". Anyways tell "Rachelle" that you like him and then tell him that you have feeling for him. if your friend is still together with the guy you like then she isnt really a good friend because a real f... (read in full...)

My boyfriend asked me to have a threesome with another man, is he gay?!

Q.   I have a strange feeling my boyfriend might be gay, he's 26 , comes from a muslim background, very, very clean and organised, this is the 1st time he is in a relationship and he tells me he loves me every single day. When it comes to sex (and it's ...

A.   5 September 2008: ok tell him to tell you if he is gay that you would understand but if he wont talk that you will break up with him cause usually if your together them your suppose to tell eachother what's wrong. ~Amber~... (read in full...)

What do I do now that he isn't showing any interest?

Q.   Ok, an update of my situation... I dumped my boyfriend a week after our 10 month anniversary. Everythings fine there now. I persued guy #2. (Mightve mentioned this already but) we met up while i was still with my boyfriend and we ended u...

A.   5 September 2008: maybe he was just in for the sex. anyways if he did love you h wouldnt need time to "think" about it. i say dump him before he dumps you.... (read in full...)

I think he's too shy to ask me out, so what should I do?

Q.   Im 16 and there's this guy who i met like 3 months ago and since then we have been flirting/texting/msning/talking a lot like a couple of days a week and i know he likes me - its obvious and he knows i like him but i feel he's too shy to ask me out ...

A.   5 September 2008: maybe you should ask him out if he's too shy.... (read in full...)

Is it worth going against my friends and hers so we can be together?

Q.   i realy like this girl, and she likes me, but the one problem is that shes one of my mates sisters, im 17 and shes 15, and were pretty certain we could go pretty far, but the her sister is over protective,i guess, and doesnt want her going anywhere ...

A.   5 September 2008: well the chick that you like is old enough to make her own desicions and the sister cant tell you what to do. go for it! XD... (read in full...)

Do I like him? I'm feeling confused.

Q.   ok... i like this guy aaron and he had a g.f adn they broke up and me and him are good friends... she startes spreading shit about me b/c we were friends... and now he said he likes me and stuff but the thing hat worrys me is 1) they are friends ...

A.   5 September 2008: well stay away from friends and aaron BUT make up a good ecscuse and go in ur room and think about your feeling for him.... (read in full...)

My fiance wants us to live with his mother...what can I do?

Q.   I have been with my partner for 3 years now and a few weeks ago, we become engaged and have started to plan a wedding in disney, florida in 2010. a few weeks/months before he proposed, we began thinking about seriously moving to florida. He is 27, ...

A.   5 September 2008: how bout you just talk to him about her living like next door. ... (read in full...)

I don't feel bad about breaking up with my ex--what is wrong with me?

Q.   Hi.... I broke up with my bf yesterday, but i dont feel bad about it. He didnt talk to me for 3 weeks, not one "i love you" for 3 weeks...ooh i was so frusterated. Almost 2 weeks maybe more then 2 weeks ago, i met a different guy that loves me ve...

A.   5 September 2008: maybe you really didnt love him love him maybe you ust liked him. and if you do have feelings bout your ex take time off your friends and bf and figure them out.... (read in full...)

He treated me terribly, abused me and broke up with me--but I miss him!

Q.   My ex boyfriend who i went out with for around a year, suddenly turned on me. he began to spread not very nice comments. it was as if he did t too make himself loo big infront of his friends. He hit me and also booted me. and tells me that if he ...

A.   5 September 2008: i think you should foget about him and get a guy that actually likes you and doesnt ignore you. you deserve better!XD and if he does really bad stuff to you tell your parents. find Mr.Right not Mr.Wrong... (read in full...)

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