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writes:My boyfriend and I recently had it out about him contacting an old girlfriend and then lying to me about it. The calls seemed to be harmless and only happened a few times but I was hurt that he never told me and when I found out, he lied about how many calls were made.Anyway, when they were together she was working at a gym and apparently still does. Well the other night he mentioned he might join that gym! The thing is, he doesn't know I know she works there. After that big fight I wonder why he would do that? Is he being sneaky again thinking I don't even know she works there? and either way, it will just cause conflict again. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): be honest with yourself i get the feeling youd be anything but fine if they continued a relationship.most people wouldnt want their partner being in contact like this with their ex.its just too much of a coincidence to think he dont know his ex works at the gym.if your strong enough you should keep tabs on him and see just how far he thinks he can pull the wool over your eyes?hes already told you lies so i would say theyll continue.youve had a BIG fight?just shows how far he will go to throw you off the scent.sorry honey but i think youve landed a big fat liar.either dump him or watch him closely.good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't think I'm controlling. I had told him if he wanted to continue a relationship with her, that's fine but I don't want to be apart of it and have to worry about it so either be honest with me and dont' hide things, or I'll think the worst.
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reader, nologo  +, writes (17 March 2007):
 Calls seemed to be harmless and only happened a few times.After that big fight you wonder why he would do that.He is being sneaky regardless of what you know.Either you don't trust him or you are controling.It will cause conflict again if you go on like this.
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