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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Having sex usually makes an emotional bonds for the woman to the man a lot more than vice versa.
Blame the oxytocin that gets released in the female brain during sex. It doesn't happen like that for men.
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reader, Deema  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 Really I think it depends how long you've known him for. Some girls make the mistake of getting tooclose too quick and men don't respect you for that, but neither will they appreciate it if you're a cold fish. Guess its about what you feel comfortable with, but theres a great book called 'The Rules' and that gives good information on all these things. But it comes to mind if you're having to try so hard to figure out what he wants - why don't you just ask him? Problems done with then. Good luck. x
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reader, Dr. John  +, writes (12 April 2008):
 Each case is different depending on his morals, cultural background etc.
Some guys just never get emotionally intimate although many have no problem becoming sexually intimate.
Ideally a person, male or female, sould never feel that you must be sexually intimate with a member of the opposite sex to have a relationship with them.
I hope this is what you were looking for. Doc
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): Getting Physical with a guy is NOT important to get close to him. It's not even necessary. If you feel like you need to be physical with a man in order to get close to him, the right connection isn't there. He may be telling you something just to fill your head. Of course if you want to get physical, just be safe. My personal experince is that sometimes it just makes things wierd, and what you've hoped for to turn into something more, just ends up going away...very akwardly.
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reader, idon'tknowwhy +, writes (12 April 2008):
Getting Physical with a guy is NOT important to get close to him. It's not even necessary. If you feel like you need to be physical with a man in order to get close to him, the right connection isn't there. He may be telling you something just to fill your head. Of course if you want to get physical, just be safe. My personal experince is that sometimes it just makes things wierd, and what you've hoped for to turn into something more, just ends up going away...very akwardly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 April 2008): If anything it will only make things worse. Respect your choice to give intimacy to someone that is special and that you hold dear. Save it for your wedding night. Guys have a tendency to lose whatever they feel for you now, when you give them what they want. Trust me its not what you want.
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