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*aulBunyon
writes:This isn't anything new, but I was wondering if it's "normal" to want to watch your wife have sex with another man?
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reader, JerryS +, writes (21 March 2012):
Totally normal, its called Hotwifing
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 March 2011): Yes it is more common than you think. Normally its men in their 30s who have this desire to see their wife with another man. Some theories say that it is taking control of their worst fear, others say that the man with this fantasy is just looking for another erotic high. My husband happens to want this. I have been back and forth on what to think and whether or not to do it. This may be one of those things thats best left as pillow talk, but on the other hand it may strengthen our relationship as our other adventures have done...
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reader, firstlovelastlove  +, writes (26 February 2011):
 I'm just one man but I have never had a fantasy about a 3 some. Even the times I was asked it just made me sick.
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reader, Kilcardy  +, writes (26 February 2011):
I think it's probably a "normal" fantasy (whatever normal is these days). Beyond that, (i.e. actually pursuing such a thing) portends something amiss in the relationship, in my opinion. Actually allowing it portends the end of most marriages (again, in my opinion).
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): Its wrong unless you want a road to hell. GOOD LUCK ;-)
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (26 February 2011):
There are certainly enough posts on here that suggest it's a normal fantasy some men have. But, I do think it's one best kept as a fantasy and nothing else, because there are also a lot of posts talking about threesomes/sharing gone wrong.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2011): I have a lot of guy friends and we've talked about these things and they said that most men (married men as well) have the threesome fantasy, but with their wife and another woman. I do think it is a bit unusual (but not unheard of) to want to watch your wife have sex with another man.
Anyway, don't feel bad about it just because you think it's "not normal". It shows you have an open mind. Personally, I think that men who expect to have a threesome with another woman, but absolutely refuse to let another man touch their wife are a bit selfish.
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