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writes:Hi Im 16 and like a 20 year old man he's a cashier that always flirts with me.I was wondering if 20 is too old for me i'm not animmature person but i'm not really sure if it's okay for me to say something to him or ask him if he would like to go for coffee.I know it's not as bad as say a 13yo and 22yo age gap but am aware at this age it can be a significant difference and don't want to end up in a relationship that may affect possible relationships in the future. I do however know that i'm not trying to replace a male figure in my life which is what i would usually say to someone who was into someone older.Anyways i know this guy likes me, not exactly sure if he wants a relationship but i know he would be too shy to say anything any help and advice is appreciated thankyou xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): no 4 years is tiny.plus age is only a number.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): haha no its fine my brothers 20 and going out with a 16 year old. just dont do anything bad with him.
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reader, bethevans +, writes (1 August 2009):
 Hey there, well the thing is no.. you're 16 so it's not illegal .. the thing is my best friend is 16 and her boyfriend is 20, there parents are fine with it and they have been together nearly a month now. She's the same as u quite mature.. so i think u could relate to him in some way more immature girls couldnt. Goodluck:)
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