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Is 30 years and 3000 miles such a problem?

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Question - (24 August 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 August 2010)
A female Ireland age 30-35, *urleywhirlyhurly writes:

ok everyone when i was young i had a fake profile on a dating site i fell in love with a man on that site at the time but i could never tell him who i really was now i am 19 and i see he is still on the site i am so happy he is still single as i thought about him for years now i am old enough to get into contact with him but i am afraid to as he is 49 and i am 19 i need help !!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2010):

I actually just went through a similar situation myself. If you just come clean you'll be alot better off. Maybe he'll accept it but he may not. You'll have to deal with the consequences. You made the fake profile. But like I said I recently went through this. The guy I was talking to accepted it and we're continuing to date. (: there's hope Hun.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (24 August 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntYou're old enough to be his daughter, it would be like talking to your dad. Ew. Online dating can be very dangerous, he could be lying about who he is as well there's really no telling. There was a girl on here yesterday that chatted with some guy on facebook, started talking about sex, sent him pictures, videos, accidentally dropped her address in one message. He came to her house doors were unlocked she was home alone, and raped her. Now, she's pregnant. So no site is safe.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2010):

You know nothing about this man. At all. He could be married. He could be a nut case. Plus you had a fake account, so who knows what he will think. This screams "bad idea".

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