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Is there something wrong with me or am I attracted to girls?

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Question - (22 January 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 23 January 2015)
A female South Africa age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Am 19 years old girl and have had sex with 3 guys,but I don't really feel it.Sometimes I watch porn to be aroused,but what really turns me on is girl on girl kind of porn.Watching porn and masturbating is what I enjoy more. Is there something wrong with me or am I attracted to girls?

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (23 January 2015):

Honeypie agony auntI think if you didn't get anything out of the sex you either had selfish or inexperienced partners. Though not every female orgasm from penetration alone, many still ENJOY it.

Liking girl/girl porn doesn't automatically make you gay. Many women get aroused by that. Mainly because the FOCUS is on pleasing a woman. It's rarely "degrading" there is no calling one or the other foul names, slapping and so forth. It's more about woman's pleasure.

A GAY woman are attracted to women sexually, and WANT to BE with women sexually. Not just WATCH them, if that makes sense.

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A female reader, Midnight Shadow United Kingdom +, writes (22 January 2015):

Midnight Shadow agony auntPlease get a check up for STDs; 3 partners by 19, whilst not wrong, means that you're at a higher risk of having STDs.

Other than that, it may just be self-exploration.

Do you get oral sex performed on you? Penetration alone doesn't arouse most women.

Just in case you don't already, please use birth control all of the time (as instructed on the box) and insist on condoms being worn EVERY time you perform oral on them and also during intercourse.

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