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writes: I am a 32 year old lady living in South Africa. My problem is that I was involved with my boyfriend for more that a year now but we each other for more than 5 years. The problem is that yesterday one of his friends told me that he has a wife and he never told me that. I am confused. He says we will talk but I don't know if I will really trust him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, becky05 +, writes (5 August 2005):
If it turns out he has a wife then I wouldnt trust him as he has lied to you for a year. Also, I would end the relationship if he is married.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2005): Your boyfriend made a choice 1 year ago to have two women in his life and lie to you. He may not call it lying but omitting information that would have influenced your behavior is lying as far as I'm concerned. Your boyfriend is a deceitful person who doesn't know the meaning of love. It is devastating to find out that someone you love cannot be trusted. I can only hope that you don't buy into his lies again. As for you, I know that you are hurting but you have your whole life ahead of you. You deserve to find a man who loves you with all his heart and soul and isn't dividing his time between you and his wife. There is nothing for him to tell you..he lied to you and he broke your bond of trust. Drop this guy and fast. Keep your self-respect intact and remember: Life is too short to settle for weeds when you can have a garden. Best of luck and take care, Irish
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