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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have a habit of making trouble for myself. I develop crushes easily and seem to always have one on somebody somewhere. This is a problem because I have been happily married for many years. It seems that the more inappropriate the crush, the harder I fall (doctors, pastors, friends). I never act on them, and am quite frankly embarrassed by having silly crushes. I'm not a cheater, and don't intend to, so this really concerns me. I'm always striving to be a better person and this is one area I am having trouble with...even though it's all in my own head and never acted on. Advice?
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reader, Luv2giveadvice  +, writes (7 April 2011):
You say you are happily married, are you sure?It sounds to me there is something missing in your marriage: spice, passion, excitement.The way I see it you have 2 choices:1 - Try to introduce the passion back into your marriage,or2 - Divorce.Sounds harsh I know but, although you arent now,one day, if you continue to be tempted, you will act on it.
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