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writes: My boss and i are having an affair though he's married.Well i got pregnant and it's really depressing.He acts as though he really likes me but i not sure.He told me once he feel comfortable when he's with me.He acts really worried about me.He says he wants to be in the baby's life full time because he doesn't want his child calling another guy dad.He wants me to get an apartment so he can be there as often as possible.The bad part is i'm still in a relationship. please help me.I think i'm in love with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2006): to be honest it doesn't sound like he wants to be with you full time - he wants the best of both worlds - have his wife at home and call around to you in the apartment when it suits him!!!
Get a grip, its the age old story that never changes or goes away!!! You need to be strong, finish with him and either sort things out in your own relationship or prepare yourself for been a single parent!
But if I was you I wouldn't be hanging around waiting for this other guy!! Its never goin to work out. I've seen it happen to so many people before and they waste away the best years of their lives waiting for them to leave their wives or what ever!!!
Its never worth it... But best of luck with the baby and everything all the same!
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (2 October 2006):
 he wants you to get an apartment why so when your babys older he/she will say wheres daddy? and you can reply oh with his wife. come on use your brain if he wants you to get an apartment then you tell him to get divorsed and move in with you and his child! and obvously youll have to get your own apartment as if you live with your boyfreind who your in a ralationship now when he finds out i think he will chuck you out or vise verse! but my advice if he will not divorse his wife then youll just have to tell him you dont want to be with him as it will not be fare on the baby when it is born to have its daddy running backwards and forwards to 2 different woman and especially not fare on his wife who knows nothing! let him have acces to see his baby,as for your other ralationship i think its best to end that too! the main thing in this situation is you have your baby for life! just make sure you dont get in this situation again!
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