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female
age
41-50,
*hortielove
writes:hi i'm in love with my husband's best friend and i told him my feelings and i think it ruined our friendship. But now I don't know what to do, cause i've felt this way for really long time. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): Why didn't you guard your feelings? If men are to guard there penises, women should be just as accountable for not guarding their feelings.
You need to talk things through with your husband. This black cloud will hang over you forever if he's your husband's best friend, and it would be better to tell your husband before he finds out some other way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2009): You didn't give us much to work with but...looks like the damage is already done at one step. You didn't really describe much about your husband though which is a shame.
When you told him your feelings though, what did you expect to happen? I'm Not saying that something bad would have happened but I don't think you are thinking through things fully. He is your husband's BEST FRIEND after all. If you ruined the friendship I think you should apologize to him for starters..
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (6 March 2009):
 What were the vows you made to your husband? Did they mean anything or were they just empty promises? You should know what to do or what you should have done in the first place if your promises mean anything. Doc
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