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writes:Been really close friends with a boy for 4 months, He used to like me, but i told him i dont know how i felt. Lately started liking him SOOO much, went to tell him.. he got a girlfriend about 3 hours before i was going to tell him. I told him anyways. Hes like im so sorry dont know what to say, i feel bad .. etc. ( he knows how much i like him)He said if he was single in future he'd deffo go out with me and i said 'you wont be'and he said you dont know that .. i dont know that.Its breaking my heart i really want to be with him.Weve been at a fireworks display tonite with some of his friends, its been so sweet he gave me his jacket, he wore my gloves , we shared a toffee apple, and he gave me a few cuddles. All i wanted to do was cuddle him all the time and kiss him.Hes the only person want it feels so right :(But its like he metioned his girlfriend a few times to his mate in conerstation. and hes the NICEST, SWEETEST guy ever , he wouldnt ever end it with her. What shall i do i cant move on , im always with him so i wouldnt beable to anyways, shall i wait til they break up .. if they break up :( ??
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reader, forbiddenlove29  +, writes (14 November 2008):
Well I am in a similar situation just now. I have a guy who used to like me but has a gf now, but he knows I like him. My guy flirts and leads me on and I know how gutting it is, the fact you know you can't have him no matter how much you try. I don't think you should move on because I think there will be a future for you guys. Maybe you should speak to him and ask him if he likes you. If he does then ask why he doesn't want to be with you instead. If he says he doesn't and he likes his gf a lot more, you should maybe lay it low until they finish. If thats not your thing try win him over. His gf will probs hate you forever but flirting and being all over him might make him realise that he likes you. So you have lots of different solutions but I wish you the best and hope you end up with him, Hope I helped a little at least.
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