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writes: I am 29 and my boyfriend is 19. He has been persuing the relationship with me for months, and its only been weeks since I have given in and allowed myself to fall in love with him. I do love him, and find this relationship to be by far the most fulfilling relationship that I have ever been in ( I have ALWAYS dated older men). I have met his parents, and they have accepted me. Because of my doubts I have asked a few of my friends what they think about it. The general response is...he's a keeper! I often think about the relationship. I am thinking about including sex in our relationship. Do you think it ok? Do you think it will be good for both of us? Advice? in a few more years do you think he would want a younger woman?
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reader, boomer1  +, writes (6 November 2009):
Hi...my only concern would be to ask you how you feel about kids? I am a 30 year old woman dating a 25 year old man. I love him very much, but through out 3 year relationship age has been an issue.Not regarding who we are as people, but because I am ready for children and he is not. The fact that I am afraid of my chances of conceiving decreasing every year have made this a read problem in our relationship. I don't think age really matters as much as where you are in your lives and if what you want it compatible, but please think carefully about the issue of children, as you don't want to spend 2,3 years with him, then realise that you want kids when he doesn't, when he still has plenty of time, but you may not.
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reader, Ginalolabridga + ♥, writes (6 November 2009):
 If you are happy with him that is all that matters here, your the one sharing a life with him and he you, that is all at this time that is important.
Yes i can see being an older woman why you would have doubts about the age further down the line, but that is jumping the gun a bit early isn't it?
Why not enjoy what you have now with him, live for today as they say! and if you want to start being intimate with him because it fees right now, well i would say that is the icing on the cake wouldn't you?
Gina
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