In a 3+ year relationship with an older man, but no sex!

A female age 41-50, *rown2surger2 writes:

I’m 32 and my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yr now 51 but young at heart and very attractive have a good relation but when it comes to sex well its just not there. We have maybe 3 times in the time we have been together and I need any and all help we talk about it and he just says "I’ve had it all my life and it’s just not what I want right now and when I’m ready you'll know. " I’ve asked for it nicely and even begged for it. I’ve tried sexy and every way in between even bought the little blue pills lol and still nothing. And no he’s not gay. I just don’t know what else to do or should I just drop it? Any help at this point please.

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