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I'm worried that his girlfriend may get the wrong impression about us!

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Question - (18 September 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 October 2010)
A female Singapore age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a senior at my school and he's really kind to me.

I know he has a girlfriend which I feel really good

for them both.

He sometimes appear to me that he was lonely.

I don't understand why.

I have never met his girlfriend before but

I have a feeling that she

may got a wrong impression of us if she see.

I don't want to see him suffered.

In case that if they break up.

I know that their relationship has been on and off for a while.

You see a problem? Some of his friends think that

he was flirting on me.

I don't think so. It's like his duty to take care of

his junior, me.

They all have this duty and for me too to take care of

my junior. And we all care for each other so much

I like to think of him as a brother as he always gives me

a warm feeling when we have some activity outside the school.

Like when all the student have to stay out and away from home for nights.

It's kind of comforting me.

Can I do something to help him or this case is not my business.

Or should I avoid him so that his friends wouldn't get it wrong and may be her too.

As I don't have any chance of meeting her I think the best is they should make it clear.

Can I say something to my senior to comfort him?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (2 October 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntdont avoid him if you are both friends, even though he is in a relationship he is entitled to have friends that are girls and am sure his girlfriend understand that so try not to worry and continue your friendship, just ignore his friends if they keep talking about him flirting they will soon get fed up they are probably just trying to stir up things. They are probably just jelous that he has a close friendship with you.

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