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writes:I am a 23 year old girl on the verge of commencing marital relationship with a 32 year old man. I have known him for around a year but I love him a lot. He has great family values and I love that about him. Nevertheless I am worried about the age gap. Should I be?
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reader, lerato29  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 theres nothing wrong with the age difference as long as you love each other and you are happy.
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reader, Abella  +, writes (15 March 2011):
 you are about to marry a man, but are you getting last minute jitters before the wedding because you are 23 and he is 32? That's not what I would think is too large an age gap. One of my good friends is 30 and her husband is now 42. They married 8 years ago and are about to have their second baby and they are SO happy. Like your intended her husband
has also has great family values. He helps out with their first child. I think you will be fine and be a lovely bride on the day.
Just relax and enjoy the good years ahead
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reader, I'm listening  +, writes (15 March 2011):
Well you need to ask yourself what worries you about it? If it's actually YOUR geniuine worry then why? because he'll want to settle down whilst you'll still want to go out and have fun? or what? Or, and what I feel is more likely, is it what other people will think? If you geniunely love this guy and the age hasn't worried you for the past year then why has it become an issue now?? So many people say that love alone isn't enough but why isn't it? You could meet a guy your own age and him the same and you may not be at all compatable. I think if you love this guy and you honestly do see yourself spending the rest of your life with him then go for it. If not you need to stand back and ask yourself whether this is something that can be solved through simple compromise or whether it is something that will eventually split you up because if that is the case do not enter into marrage lightly.
I hope this has helped but in the long run this is something that you need to figure out. What it is that's bothering you about the age difference and if it really is an issue at all?
Please don't hesitate to get back in touch
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2011): i think you shouldnt only be concerned about your married mans age - how about being concerned THAT HE IS MARRIED.
If he is "such a great family man" why is he having this affair with you?
OR is the TITLE WRONG? perhaps you are getting married to a 32 year old man? Please advise.
LoveGirl
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