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26-29,
anonymous
writes:im stuck in a complete rut and dont know how to get out of it!!!!ok im very self conscious about my body so whenever a guy starts to chat me up (which isnt very often) i always back away cz im scared he will be turned off of me when we get intimate and he sees the truth about my body (as im far from skinny). i am tryin to loose weight and tone up but its taking ages. the worst thing is is that because its been so long since ive been in a physical relationship (we're talking a couple of years here), i back away from guys coz im worried i wont be sexually adequate, yet the reason why i sexually inaqequate is because i back away as im worried im unattractive and too inexperienced. how can i get out of this rut???also, if i do get chatted up by a guy, i never take them seriously because i always think that they are only chatting me up because "fat girls are easy" as they are desperate for attention. is this what guys think?? honest answers please!!! :-) Reply to this Question
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reader, hails +, writes (27 February 2007):
 your only young yet, your body changes, you maybe chubby now but your starting puberty an plenty of girls are chubby at your age as once you start growin you will b fine, dont worry about it. your too young to be thinkin bout these things anyway. the legal age for sex is 16 so you have a few years left before you start worryin about these things and by then u may b fine with yourself
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): ************** hey i posted the question and put my age in wrong sorry!!! im 21 not 12!!!! ******************
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2007): Personally, i prefer to chat with fat girls, not because they are easy, but for their kindness, non-judgemental attitude towards you as a human. I never get to have a similar chat with any girl who is very good looking. Personally, i don't really care about these kind of girls who have written on their faces "I am precious, don't even think about talking with me, unless you are so and so..".
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reader, confused guy  +, writes (27 February 2007):
It's true not to take seriously because all they want to do is get in your pants,Not because your fat and desperate. Also forget what they think and you don't think your unattractive because you never know a special guy who don't care if your easy and don't care if your fat, but care as to how your personality is.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (27 February 2007):
 Why are you even thinking about getting intimate when you're 12 years old at the oldest? You're far too young to be sexualising yourself in this way and I think the root of it is your low self confidence. You need to get help and you need to get it now before you end up pregnant and disease ridden.
CD
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