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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I'm so unbelievably confused! I can't even think how to get all these thoughts written down in an order that makes sense.I always thought I knew how to figure guys out but I could really use some help, I'm thinking someone impartial might be able to just look at the facts and see things clearer than me.A while ago I started sleeping with a male friend, we agreed it was all we wanted. However, things seem to have moved on since then but I still don't know where I stand! I think about him a lot and we talk everyday. He's always very affectionate, says some really sweet things to me. He's moving out soon and planning how I'm going to stay there for long weekends and all the places we're going to go together. He always says I'm the only person he can really talk to and he always notices when I'm down and makes me talk to him about it. and even though we're meant to be just about the sex he's more than happy to spend the whole evening cuddled up on the sofa with me just talking and kissing.But then other times, he says things like well we're just friends or, We're not really going out together!What does he want? What's going on in his head? I know that I should just ask him but he's such a reserved kinda guy I'm not sure he'd be honest even if he wanted something more. And if I'm wrong I don't want to scare him off!I'm starting to really like him but I feel like we're stuck in limbo here and it's starting to get me down because sometimes I just wish we could be together like a proper couple. Any ideas?
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reader, Starlights +, writes (25 July 2009):
 even if he is a reserved guy you can tell by his actions how he feels towards you.
if you want a relationship & he doesnt its time to walk away otherwise you will always be stuck in limbo and eventually grow strong feelings which can develop no further.
this is not good for you.
i would suggest talk to him and see exactly where you stand.
good luck
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