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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hi all! I'm 23 yr old, and I have a prob. I'm still a virgin, and this is so because last (and the first) time I was having sex with my girl (and year and a half back!), I couldn't get an erection, and this happened twice in a row with the same girl! I have been feeling extremely unconfident since then. I'm not gay, and am attracted to women. I get an erection everytime I masterbate or am aroused. But this is affecting me in terms of relationships. The thought of not being able to get an erection while having sex scares me off relationships.Recently it has been becoming too major an issue and I feel extremely stupid about it. I need help overcoming this!
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (20 October 2011):
 Seems you're just inexperienced. If I were you, I would not at all worry at this point. Possibly due to anxiety, which means you being way too apprehensive. Sit back, relax, kiss and fondle your girl until it gets you heated, then I'll bet some exciting things will happen.
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reader, Auntie E +, writes (20 October 2011):
 You are right- you do need help overcoming this. Look, you were probably not in the right place at the right time that this failure to get hard happened and you are letting that shape everything. Don't let that happen. If you are with the right girl at the right time this will not happen. Take the time to develop a real and loving relationship - the rest will come naturally.
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