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writes:okay, I have posted a question recently about one of my female friends dropping sexual hints and I almost sure that she is doing it on purpose. So we've been meeting up in college and we have really long conversation that we don't want to break off. The only thing is though, I've started to think of her more than just a friend, I've had dreams about her differently and I seem to think about her all of the time. This is all fine, but my friends seem to see something different. My other friends have noticed that we spend a lot of time together and when my phone rings they instantly know that it's her. "Is anything going on?" my friend asked me and I thought what would I say to them if it was? It's not like I want to feel this way for her, but the more I talk and meet up with her, the most I think about being with her. I'm not bisexual or anything, but it's increasingly likely that this may happen if I become anymore involved with her? I don't know whether she's bisexual or lesbian, as she has never mentioned it before? she's got another friend who I suspected is a lesbian, so I think if she is maybe her and my friend have been together before? but I don't want to ask her just in case she's mad at me for asking. I don't want anything to come between me of this friend so I think telling her is out of the question, but until I pluck up the courage to tell this friend what shall I do in the meantime? Let my feeling's develop and still meet up with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe only thing is that, unlike you I would accept her kiss, I wouldn't back away or reject her! I think that I'm going to keep meeting up with her and see how we go. I'm not confused with how she feels about me, because she's made it clear that she wants us to be good friends, I'm going to keep it like this until I feel anything different of she makes a 'move', thanks for the advice :D
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reader, beeka1001  +, writes (17 May 2013):
 I had a friend awhile who was homosexual and she had the BIGGEST crush on me. I am completely heterosexual and would never even imagine doing something sexual with another female, but I did find myself being oddly attracted to her. We got really close, hung out all of the time, and all of that. But my advice to you is if you do not feel any homosexual tendencies than hold to that. My friend tried to convince me to kiss her, but I refused and she respected that. Just don't change yourself to match her...but there is nothing wrong or unnatural about having a friendship like that.
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