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writes:so im 14 and i went to my school dance the other day. all of a sudden the guys started grinding. i live in a small town and the guys only were grinding with this small group of girls who almost all the guys like. me and my friends were dancing together and that was fun. but i really like one guy and i wanted to grind with him but im too scared he will reject me. i dont know what to do. should i just do it? help! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): I'm quite a shy person, and I actually did a bit of grinding with a guy I didn't know very well. How could I do it? I was drunk! and he was taking the lead. Maybe if you drank a bit? but if you don't want too do it, then don't.
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (14 November 2008):
 Why do you have to grind?
I sense that you feel awkward or embarrassed about grinding. Dancing is supposed to be sensual, but tasteful. I love dancing, but grinding on the other hand, cheapens the experience of dancing... call me old-fashioned all day, but I think that you should stick to something classy when you dance with him. It will be more special and memorable and you won't feel as awkward.
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