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writes:i was with a bloke for 3 yrs who is the father to my 2yr old daughter when i first met him he was lovely, caring then after 6 months he changed used to beat me up giving me black eyes i tried to split up with him but he kept saying i will change but he never changed so i split up with him couldnt take no more we av been split up for a year and a half and he keeps stalking me around town coming round to my flat were i live with my two kids shouting through my letter box saying i can see what you get up to and see what ur doing. my eldest daughter who is 4 tells him to leave mummy alone im really scared of him and to scared to leave my flat knowing he could be hiding round the back of my flat i have been to the police about it and court but he gets away with it liening to the police making me look mad and its been going on for a year what shall i do ?
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reader, chickpea2011  +, writes (8 October 2011):
 Hi,Sorry to hear that you are going through such a horrible experience. I am glad that you left him, and no matter what he tells you, promises, do not believe him, and never give him another chance. Unfortunately, as you know he won't change, never... By the way you describe him, and his behavior, he has anger problems, I am sure not, but he doesn't seems mentally stable either. Not sure what cause him this way, but this is far more complicated then obsession, or trying to get you back. It's very dangerous, he has been physically abuse, so God forbids what else he can be capable of?First, you need to go to the police, and get a retraining order, let them know about your situation, in case anything happens. If he comes by again, call the police. When out in public, be always surrounded ny people. I am sorry, this must be difficult, stressful to live in fear. Also, have friends, and family know what's going on. You need mental, and physical support. Good luck, best wishes, and hope you feel better soon.
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